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Sameer Sohail's avatar

Yes to this! Stoicism can kill the "rhizomatic" nature of human passion. Discipline is valuable, but its true place is after you've zoomed out, reflected, and chosen a direction. That’s when you zoom in, and discipline becomes essential for execution. But if discipline causes you to dismiss anything that seems "useless," you risk losing the very curiosity and spontaneity needed to zoom out and discover what’s next.

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Lida's avatar

I wonder why so many young men have taken to stoicism in modern society? I rarely go a full conversation with my peers without a Marcus Aurelius (or Ryan Holiday lol) reference…

I’m curious why it’s been such a cult hit / what is it about this framework that’s resonating so resoundingly right now?

Is it reflective of modern masculine ideals? to be unwavering, rational, unaffected? Serving as a convenient defense against life’s inevitable drama ?

I write a lot about meaning-making, belief, myth—and Stoicism comes up again and again as a kind of “solve” for the god-shaped hole in so many of my male peers. There’s something sterile about it. It’s clean & tidy but falls flat.

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